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8 Reasons Why It Is So Hard To Find Someone Decent To Marry

by Michael Snyder, End Of The American Dream:

It is not easy to be single in America today. If you are a man, it can be exceedingly difficult to find a good woman to marry. If you are a woman, it is literally a miracle if you can find a good man to marry. So is it just our imaginations, or has the process of finding a mate become much more challenging in recent years? Well, it is a fact that fewer people are getting married these days. For the first time in our history, there are more single adults in our country than married adults, and Time Magazine says that 25 percent of Millennials will never get married even once in their entire lifetimes. And of course those that do get married are taking far longer to do so than previous generations. Just recently, I wrote about how the average American woman is getting married 7.0 years later than she did in 1956, and the average American man is getting married 6.7 years later than he did back at that time.

So why is this happening?

Why has finding love become so challenging?

Below, I would like to share 8 reasons why it has become so hard to find someone decent to marry…

#1 The Me-Centered Society

We live in a “me-centered” society in which tens of millions of us are literally in love with ourselves. When pleasing self becomes the highest priority, that doesn’t leave a lot of room for the kind of self-sacrificial love that marriage requires. An astounding 24 billion “selfies” were uploaded to Google last year, and that says a whole lot about where we are at as a nation. So many of us are inclined to stay with our “partners” for only as long as they make us happy, and the instant that ends many of us wish to dispose of them. And that is a lot easier to do if you are “living together” instead of being legally married.

#2 It Has Become Much More Difficult To Find Someone With Good Values

The moral collapse of America is something that I write about extensively. As a society, we have rejected the values of previous generations, and today most people generally do whatever they feel like doing. But this can become a major problem when you are looking for someone “that shares your values” to get married to. According to the Pew Research Center, more than half of all Americans that belong to the “Silent Generation” attend religious services weekly, but less than 30 percent of all Millennials do. With each passing generation, we have become less Christian, less “conservative”, and less moral. Unfortunately for young single adults, these trends do not seem likely to change in a major way any time soon.

#3 A Lot Of Young Adults Are Obsessed With Money And Materialism

A lot of single people these days will not date someone unless that individual has “good prospects” for the future. In fact, one survey found that 75 percent of American women would not date an unemployed man. Of course it is entirely reasonable to want a spouse that will work hard, but many young people are taking their obsession with materialism to ridiculous extremes.

I want to share with you what is going on in China these days, but similar scenes are playing out all across the rest of the world as well…

Parents often provide their male children with a home or car to make them appear more attractive. Women are often encouraged to “marry up” and not to settle for anyone who can’t provide material benefits.

A woman from the southwestern city of Chengdu rejected her boyfriend’s flash mob proposal last December, when she saw the ring and thought the diamond was too small.

She later told a friend that the man had agreed to “buy me a diamond ring as large as one carat,” Soho News reported.

It was reminiscent of a famous line from a 2010 Chinese dating show, when a contestant said, “I would rather cry in the back of a BMW than smile on the back of a bicycle.

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1 comment to 8 Reasons Why It Is So Hard To Find Someone Decent To Marry

  • Craig Escaped Detroit

    It will be interesting when the power grid goes down, and all those basements get flooded.

    We will get to see just HOW many people were living in their parent’s basements when they have to move up the the above ground level.

    No more “selfies” when the data & phone networks quit working.

    Ladies with Princess-Barbie Dreams who are looking for a rich, handsome Prince will come down to earth when they have no food in their bellies. A guy with a box full of canned goods will look like the “best catch in town”.

    And just imagine how the FSA will go full retard when the EBT’s won’t work. Nobody in the ghettos will be left with any GOLD TEEF when the “Gangs with Pliers” get done with them.

    Gold & Silver chains & “Bling” will all be “Snatch & grabbed” real quick, and then the “Ghetto Tooth Fairies” will not wait for it to fall out and end up under the pillow.

    Nope, the “TOOF FAIRY GANGS” will come and TAKE ‘Em right outta dey MOUWFS.

    That reminds me, should buy another box of 380, 9mm, 40cal, 45, 357, 12 ga, 20 ga, 30 cal Russian, 223, 30-30, 30-06, 308, 22LR, etc etc, (whatever it is that you need to get, GO OUT and GET IT.)


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